Healing the Emotional Body
From “The Mastery of Love”
Now you are going to forgive others by knowing that whatever anyone did to you had nothing to do with you. Everyone dreams their own dream, remember? The words and actions that hurt you are merely a reaction to the demons in that person’s own mind. She is dreaming in hell, and you are a secondary character in her dream. Nothing anyone does is because of you. Once you have this awareness, and you do not take it personally, compassion and understanding will lead you to forgiveness.
– friend of mine let me borrow this book